Girls BE HONEST, please, be really really HONEST?

I think people throw the "stalking" word around much too loosely now w/ the facebook and other social networking sites. If you have such a site, then YOU'RE putting the info out there. If you don't want people to read it or see it (pics), then don't post it. That's how I see it anyways. If people post something publicly then it's because they want others to see it. There are privacy settings on facebook, for example, so that people can only see very, very minimal information about you unless you are "Friends." And, just asking someone to be someone else's friend isn't "stalking." I think some people like to say people are "stalking" them because it makes them feel important or something. That's pretty lame.